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Al-Anon Keeps Me Sane
- Al-Anon Keeps Me Sane
- After sharing with Al-Anon members about my marital confusion, I walked out of meetings feeling like I was worth something. I told myself, "I AM worth something. I am a precious child of God--worthy of recovery!" When my spouse once again turned his back on recovery, slipping into his disease three months into our latest reconciliation, an Al-Anon friend suggested I not make any major decision about my marriage right away.
- After much prayer and meditation, working the Steps to the best of my ability, and attending many meetings, I came to the conclusion that I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. I was worth more than the poor way I had allowed myself to be treated. The way I looked at it, I wasn't giving up on my marriage -- if I stayed in this chaotic relationship, I'd be giving up on myself. I didn't fail. I didn't decide to divorce my husband--I divorced his disease.
- I don't advocate divorce to Al-Anon members whose troubled marriages resemble mine. I must admit there are times I'm tempted to ask "Why do you choose to stay in a life of turmoil?" But I know complete separation isn't for everyone. It was a long struggle for me to choose the road I took in order to open a new chapter in my life.
- My ex-husband said to me after our divorce became final, "Now you don't have to go to Al-Anon anymore!" It just showed that he never understood what this program is about. Al-Anon keeps me sane. I continue to attend so I can learn, grow, recover, serve, listen and share my experience, strength and hope. I even continue to make mistakes. After all, my goal is progress, not perfection. I continue to I pray for him - that he grasps his recovery program so he, too, can experience serenity.
- After seven years of Al-Anon and almost two years of being single, I am learning that I am the only person who is responsible for my happiness.
- Diane B. - Michigan
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Alcoholism is a family disease. Those of us who live with, or have have lived with, this disease as children or adults sometimes have problems which the Al-Anon program can help us to resolve. If you have answered yes to some of all of the above questions, Al-Anon may be of help to you. You can contact Al-Anon by checking your local telephone directory, or from the Resources page. Phone numbers and Contact Information for the Austin Area are listed on the Contact Page of this website.
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- These articles were reproduced with permission from 'The Forum', the monthly inspirational newsletter of Al-Anon. Al-Anon World Headquarters, Inc. is located in Virginia Beach, VA. See www.Al-Anon.org for more information.
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